{"id":4521,"date":"2016-04-18T18:12:40","date_gmt":"2016-04-18T12:42:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/13.201.39.237\/?p=4521"},"modified":"2016-04-18T18:12:40","modified_gmt":"2016-04-18T12:42:40","slug":"ladies-time-to-retire-compliment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/13.207.105.184\/?p=4521","title":{"rendered":"50 Shades of Greying: Ladies, Time to Retire the Compliment \u201cYou Don\u2019t Look Your Age!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"container page-content\"><p>\n\n<span class=\"dropcap\">D<\/span>\n\n<\/div>\near all, especially women,\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I regret to inform you, looking your age is now a cognisable offense. If you are blessed with a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/gender\/tv-ads-sanitary-napkins-menstruation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fountain<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">-of-youth genetic makeup, you can go back to giggling at cute cat videos. The rest of you gather up so that I can feel sorry for you.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sorry I forgot, you are used to disappointing the world for having the audacity to look your age or perhaps even older. You get so much free advice on skin care, hair care, and exercise regimens that\u2019ll make you look like your own daughter, you are now thinking of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/gender\/why-are-indians-so-embarrassed-about-the-bra\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">stringing <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">them up and using them as festoons for your neighbourhood.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your visits to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/humour\/parlour-lady-salon-eyebrow-threading\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salons<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are so tragic, you can actually hear sad strains of the violin play in the background. The facial lady claims your face has as many fine lines as the terms of conditions of an app she\u2019s just signed up for. She further insists the only way you can seek redemption is by letting her peel off your face to reveal baby-soft bleeding skin. You comply because you don\u2019t want to hurt her feelings. You lower your eyes in shame when your hairstylist picks up strands of your greys from your scalp like he\u2019s picking up dirty underwear from the floor. He shakes his head from side to side in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/pov\/fair-skinned-man-india-tourist-firang\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">disgust<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and then suggests a hair colour that\u2019ll change your life. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your life does change because now you have a bank balance that\u2019s considerably lower. Of late your bank balance had been rather busy taking care of others\u2019 feelings. Just the other day you were introduced to the wonders of \u201cself-doubt soaked in rare oils mined from Chechnya and then ground to fine paste with tiger testicles\u201d facial rejuvenation drops by the plucky girl at the skincare counter at the swanky store. When she was finally done with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/grub\/jackfruit-vegan-sensation-hipster-restaurants\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">milking<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> your udders of gullibility, you left with a cargo ship full of lotions and potions that\u2019ll work 24&#215;7 to restore your upper eye, middle of under eye, top half of your cheeks, and a part of your face you\u2019ve never even heard of, back to their lost <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/politics\/rahul-gandhi-congress-minimum-income-general-elections-2019\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">glory<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It\u2019s only much later you realise you were supposed to pick up nightwear from the store.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few hours later when you try eating the dartboard that you mistook for a pizza, you text your friend to ask if the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/sports\/real-kashmir-fc-i-league-history\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">miracle<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> diet of two-and-a-half carrots with three spoons of rice a day she recommended is messing you up instead of taking a decade off your birth certificate. <\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"quote--center\">We are socially conditioned to equating youth with beauty and beauty as an accomplishment.<\/blockquote>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">See, it\u2019s not your fault that you want to hold on to youth in a world where \u201cyou don\u2019t look your age\u201d refuses to retire as a compliment. We are socially conditioned to equating youth with beauty and beauty as an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/bollywood\/sonchiriya-women-feminism-abhishek-chaubey-sudip-sharma\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">accomplishment<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. We end up as victims of the beauty industry that loves thrusting a twenty-something gorgeous woman in our faces, whose sole purpose in life is to stand in front of a mirror and look for dark spots and fine lines. After frowning for a few seconds, she proceeds to find her <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/bollywood\/the-accidental-prime-minister-review\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">saviour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a jar of patchouli infused with a million herbs. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At least the beauty industry is clear about its objective of exploiting our insecurities that they helped create in the first place. The media, meanwhile, loves bombarding us with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/social-commentary\/dehradun-student-death-toxic-masculinity-bullying\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">toxic<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> messages that are disguised as empowering. How is a woman supposed to feel when her favourite \u201cfeminist\u201d magazine can\u2019t make up its mind whether to make their reader feel confident about her size 18 and her newly acquired frown lines, or direct her to a step-by-step guide to \u201cHow to puncture holes in your body and squeeze out the icky fat without dying\u201d. The subliminal message is: If you are fat or wrinkly or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/sports\/whats-making-everyone-so-angry-at-this-australian-open\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unfortunate<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> enough to be both, you are a badass&#8230; who doesn\u2019t take care of herself. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even women who genuinely couldn\u2019t care less must be subjected to this walk of shame. Remember <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/slideshow\/helena-rubinstein-beauty-cosmetics-jewish-museum-exhibition\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Helena Rubinstein<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who once famously said, \u201cThere are no ugly women, only <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/pop-culture\/trevor-noah-and-the-lazy-art-of-mistimed-racial-stereotypes\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lazy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ones!\u201d<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t help when you hear much older women complain about how they are treated as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/pov\/you-never-forget-your-first-drink-a-tribute-to-the-daaru-addas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">invisible<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, especially by men \u2013 the feeling that you are no longer vital or important or noticeable to others. It hits you in areas where you feel most vulnerable \u2013 your physical appearance. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But you know what will feel better? Kicking these outdated notions of beauty firmly in the arse. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why not think of your crow\u2019s feet and greys as sieves that filter out assholes who think women serve only one purpose \u2013 to be someone\u2019s eye-candy. It\u2019s way more satisfying to be a woman whose beauty is defined by her <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/pop-culture\/hellboy-review-an-underappreciated-superhero-returns-to-form\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">charisma<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, awareness, and her achievements than a skin-care regimen that reads longer than the Mahabharata. Isn\u2019t it every woman\u2019s wet dream to be noticed for who she is and not the way she looks? <\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"quote--center\">\u201cThere are no ugly women, only lazy ones!\u201d<\/blockquote>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So puhleeez, can we stop feeling sorry for something as natural as ageing? Freed from the gaze, many of us start looking inwards, work on our character, experience our own agency, and start thinking of ways we can impact others through our words and actions. Working on \u201chow you see yourself\u201d than \u201cwhat you see in the mirror\u201d teaches you to love yourself, and understand and value your unique body and look after it accordingly. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, this is where we can draw inspiration from our men. No matter how big their paunch, how roomy the bags under their eyes, they always see a drop-dead gorgeous man staring back at them from the mirror. They never let themselves forget that they are god\u2019s gift to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/gender\/how-the-indian-woman-finds-liberation-in-a-nightie\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">womankind<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and expect women to dissolve in gratitude when they are at the receiving end of their advances. Maybe we can start by retiring \u201cyou don\u2019t look your age!\u201d as a compliment.<\/span>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are socially conditioned to equate youth with beauty, and beauty as an accomplishment. But why not think of your crows\u2019 feet and greys as sieves that filter out assholes who think women serve only one purpose \u2013 to be someone\u2019s eye-candy? Let\u2019s start by retiring \u201cyou don\u2019t look your age!\u201d as a compliment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":214,"featured_media":4522,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[170],"tags":[3260,7864,8029,1350,2402,4662,735,4168],"class_list":["post-4521","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gender","tag-age","tag-beauty","tag-cosmetics","tag-make-up","tag-men","tag-old","tag-women","tag-youth"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>50 Shades of Greying: Ladies, Time to Retire the Compliment \u201cYou Don\u2019t Look Your Age!\u201d<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"We are socially conditioned to equate youth with beauty, and beauty as an accomplishment. 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