{"id":4152,"date":"2016-04-12T23:51:56","date_gmt":"2016-04-12T18:21:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/13.201.39.237\/?p=4152"},"modified":"2016-04-12T23:51:56","modified_gmt":"2016-04-12T18:21:56","slug":"why-ek-ladki-ko-dekha-toh-aisa-laga-fails-queer-movie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/13.207.105.184\/?p=4152","title":{"rendered":"Why Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga Fails as a Queer Movie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\u00a0\n<p><span class=\"dropcap\">W<\/span>hen we first meet Sweety (Sonam Kapoor) in <\/p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/bollywood\/ek-ladki-ko-dekha-toh-aisa-laga-review-sonam-kapoor-lesbian-love-story-sec-377\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> she\u2019s at a boisterous wedding celebration, quietly sketching images of brides. After her father introduces her to his old friend, she quickly gets irritated when they discuss when she will get hitched. Almost immediately, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ek Ladki Ko&#8230;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> promises to be an intimate character study of this reticent woman who clearly has plans other than marriage. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, post the opening credits, the focus shifts to Sahil Mirza (Rajkummar Rao doing wonders as always), an aspiring playwright trying to put on a play about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/love-and-sex\/relationships-love-millennials-shared-interests\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">modern love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in Mumbai. After helping Sweety escape the clutches of her hot-headed brother, he decides to look for her in Moga, Punjab, falling squarely in line with a long tradition of well-meaning Bollywood heroes who pursue women they barely know. He finds out that Sweety is the daughter of Balbir Chaudhary (Anil Kapoor), a clothing mogul. A series of cartoonish family-friendly hijinks ensue before unveiling its gay twist right before the interval \u2013 Sweety is a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/love-and-sex\/bdsm-fetlife-lesbian-india-rihanna-chains-whips-tinder-adventures-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lesbian<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. At that point, as Sahil breaks into laughter at Sweety\u2019s admission, several audience members in my theatre too broke into sniggers. Few realised that the family romcom they had walked into was, in fact, a lesbian love story. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many mainstream Bollywood movies have relied on the gay twist in recent years, postponing the moment when a character is revealed as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/social-commentary\/national-coming-out-day-homosexuality-lgbt-rights-kerala-india\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">homosexual<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Yet, none of those other movies were concerned with selling themselves as a progressive empowerment fable like <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life in a&#8230; Metro<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Konkona Sen Sharma\u2019s character goes through a crisis when she finds out her husband is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/love-and-sex\/swipe-right-on-promiscuity-before-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on her with a man. In <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kapoor and Sons<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, after Fawad Khan\u2019s character is revealed as gay, it exposes further fractures in the fa\u00e7ade of the family. In <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dedh Ishqiya<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, once Madhuri Dixit and Huma Qureshi\u2019s characters are shown to be in a relationship, it illuminates the brilliant ruse in a film that\u2019s all about deception and men unable to see women as more than princesses in towers waiting to be rescued. <\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"quote--center\">What emerges isn\u2019t a full-rounded portrait of a queer woman but a side-note in a heterosexual man\u2019s journey.<\/blockquote>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> the twist, however, almost renders the first half a futile setup, nothing more than a poorly done dog-and-pony show for a movie whose subject matter is unquestionably divisive. If this bit of misdirection was meant to drive <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/humour\/flipkart-families-moving-houses\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">family<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> audiences to the movie hall, it could have worked, had the rest of the movie not dropped the rainbow-coloured ball so badly.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the second half, the focus finally shifts to Sweety, at least for a while. In a flashback, we see how she retreated into a shell after being bullied in school for her affections for a female <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/social-commentary\/introverts-extroverts-school-classroom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">classmate<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In adulthood, it\u2019s Kuhu, a woman she meets at the opening wedding, who offers her love and an emotional release. In a bit of movie masala, the film culminates with a play written by Sahil about a lesbian couple. Unconvincingly, Sweety agrees to become a part of a play staged for everyone in Moga despite her hesitation to come out to her own family. Sahil gets her entire family, sans brother (the only one who knows her secret), to act in it without them realising that the play is about Sweety. He even ropes in Kuhu, who flies down from London to act as Sweety\u2019s other half on stage. These are ludicrous developments, yet if the movie had a strong sense of its lesbian lead it could have worked. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sadly, Sweety is a cipher. She\u2019s meant to be pensive and brittle, someone who holds her cards close to her chest. Under <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/pop-culture\/sonam-kapoor-koffee-with-karan-karan-johar-kareena-kapoor-neerja\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sonam Kapoor<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019s lifeless performance, however, she shrivels up into a one-dimensional character who isn\u2019t defined by anything other than her repressed homosexuality. During the cathartic climax when Balbir has accepted his daughter for who she is, he remarks, \u201cTum mere jaise nikli. Mujhe bhi ladies pasand hai\u201d (You\u2019re like me. I also like women). It\u2019s a silly quip but it also speaks to the movie\u2019s failure by making Sweety\u2019s only notable character trait being her attraction to women.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s little indication about Sweety\u2019s ambitions or her homosocial relationships:\u00a0She lives under the thumb of two patriarchs, her father and brother. Yet, by framing her story through Sahil\u2019s, the movie further robs her of agency.\u00a0It even ends gallingly, with Sweety telling him to perform the play based on her life all across small towns and rescue other girls like her in similar predicaments. Her resilience and pain is his tale to tell. It positions him as the straight savior, a surprising detail in a movie directed by a woman and co-written by a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/bollywood\/gazal-dhaliwal-transwoman-writer-ek-ladki-ko-dekha-toh-aisa-laga\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">transwoman<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (who also co-wrote the much sharper <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lipstick Under My Burkha<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">). What emerges isn\u2019t a full-rounded portrait of a queer woman but a side-note in a heterosexual man\u2019s journey. <\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"quote--center\">There\u2019s also something strangely sexless about the movie\u2019s depiction of a lesbian relationship.<\/blockquote>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kuhu is an even thinner character, existing as nothing more than a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/love-and-sex\/what-is-love-relationship-long-distance-breakup\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love interest<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for Sweety. Yet she is bolstered by Regina Cassandra\u2019s playful performance. In one of the film\u2019s few perceptive scenes, a weepy Sweety asks Kuhu if she wonders why they were born like this. Her self-pity is immediately undercut by Kuhu. \u201cSweety it really irritates me when you talk like this.\u201d One can\u2019t help but imagine a better film that focused on Kuhu but would Bollywood audiences be more receptive to a confident lesbian woman on screen than a broken one who begs to be welcomed within the folds of family? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s also something strangely sexless about the movie\u2019s depiction of a lesbian relationship. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At one point, Sweety\u2019s brother is incensed by the sight of two women sharing a seemingly innocuous hug on a jhoola, which seems overblown since same-sex love in India publicly traverses these homosocial spaces till it privately transgresses it<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. But, this is a film where \u201ctrue love\u201d is ostensibly disentangled from the desires of the flesh. Consider how <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fire<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> allows its female protagonists to revel in the emotional and physical <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/love-and-sex\/dildo-sex-orgasm-female-masturbation-sex-toys\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pleasures of sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Or even if one has to account for Bollywood\u2019s prurience when it comes to sex, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dedh Ishqiya<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, managed to convey the interdependent sybaritic lifestyles of its multifaceted female characters with subtlety.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The movie\u2019s progressivism is surface-level. Sweety\u2019s homosexuality is positioned as a personal struggle (albeit one faced by many kids across the country) without linking it to larger political <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/social-commentary\/lgbtq-section-377-safe-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">LGBTQ<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> movements in the country. The movie does tip its hat to societal hostility towards queer love when audience members start walking out of the play. In urban families the post-377 quest might be about parental acceptance of same-sex desire and love, but in small-town India this upsetting of the heteropatriarchal order can be very much fraught with danger and social ostracisation (without being cushioned by class privilege like Sweety). We are barely two decades removed from a time when even movies like <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fire<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Girlfriend<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> led to theatres being burned by right-wing groups, after all.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, for all my criticisms, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a Bollywood rarity. There are moments of real gravity that pierce through a film that\u2019s too busy sandpapering (or should I say khet-ifying) its edges. A flashback to Sweety\u2019s days of school <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.arre.co.in\/people\/the-seat-mafia-of-mumbai-locals\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bullying<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is emblematic of the experience of many gay kids. There\u2019s a galvanising sequence where Sweety confronts her father during rehearsals after he finds out the truth and announces that the show will go on. And the climax, when Balbir is called on to prove his loyalty to his daughter after seeing a theatrical vision of his daughter in a glass closet, may lead to many a parent shedding a tear. <\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yet, it\u2019s hard not to watch <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and sense a tremendous missed opportunity. In 2019, such a film should have been a Sapphic call to arms. Instead, what we get is a melodramatic tearjerker aimed at allowing straight people to pat their backs for their own magnanimity. <\/span>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many mainstream Bollywood movies have relied on the \u201cgay twist\u201d, but none of those were interested in selling themselves as a progressive empowerment fable like Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga. 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