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\n\nW<\/span>\n\n<\/div>e stand on the sidewalk, our bodies lit by the street lights that surround us. Six women dressed in sequinned tops, long skirts, shiny bangles, and lips red enough to stop all the evening traffic.\n\nIt\u2019s my first day on the job playing Sharanya. Born in a little village in Tamil Nadu to a modest and hardworking set of parents, Sharanya was always the one to brighten up the home with a ready giggle. Her mum, a fisherwoman, would cook fish for her every evening, and she\u2019d steal some away for her father. A happy little household until Sharanya was picked up from a market when she was eight, and shipped off to Chennai. Today, 12 years later, these sidewalks in Mumbai are home.\n\nWith one hand on my hip and a cigarette between my lips, I sway from side to side, scanning the space, wondering if I am doing it right. Just then, I see a little white car slowly pulling over to the side of the road. \u201cYou\u2019re on,\u201d I think to myself, and just as I start to walk towards it, I hear \u201cCUT!\u201d\n\n\u201cThat was too fast,\u201d says the director, ordering for a reset. \u201cShe is desperate, but she will never show it.\u201d I don\u2019t know what he means. Sharanya is a sex worker dependent on a client for her next meal. How does she not show desperation?\n\nOur small feature film, Tikli and Laxmi Bomb<\/em>, is about Mumbai\u2019s sex workers fighting for autonomy. A year ago, when Aditya Kriplani<\/a> offered me the part of a South Indian girl who is trafficked from Chennai, I leapt at it.\n\nMeryl Streep once said, \u201cIf I can play the role of a hooker at the age of 60, I\u2019d retire after that. It would complete my experience of being an actor.\u201d She wasn\u2019t wrong. The prostitute, the whore, the sex-worker, the shunned, the hapless, the carefree… Call her what you like, but for an actor there are few characters that come with as much colour and candour as this.\n\nI\u2019m a city girl and I\u2019ve spent too many nights at Juhu Chowpatty looking at the shiny shadows of women trying to make a living in the alleys parallel to the beach. They made me curious, but stepping into their shoes turned out to be a whole different story.\n\nEvery evening, we\u2019d dress up to the nines and walk past an overflowing gutter to make it to the street from where \u201cbusiness\u201d happens, but all the unwanted attention would make us severely self-conscious. The attention has the opposite effect on a sex worker \u2013 it makes her bolder.\n\nThe women stand for long hours, and constantly shift weight from one leg to another to ease the pain. \u201cMake more space between your legs,\u201d the director signalled. Only once I understood this, I got my first real customer. An old man walked over to me and asked me to accompany him for the night. I could have hugged him.\n\n

In the course of living Sharanya\u2019s life day in and out, her fight became my own. It wasn\u2019t easy.<\/blockquote>\n\nOur days turned into nights, and nights into dawn. Mango juice became desi daru and every place from abandoned beer bars, to secluded sidewalks, to the inside of an SUV became our work place. The interiors of a police thana were a common sight.\n\nThese were tough alright, but a scene where a co-worker gets brutally beaten up by a cop was the toughest for me. I\u2019d recently read a story of a sex worker who was made to give the police lathi a blowjob. \u201cThis happens, everyday near Dombivali where I live madam,\u201d a junior artist told me over chai. It slowly blurred the line between fiction and fact. What we were filming wasn\u2019t just a few scenes on paper. It was life<\/a>.\n\nAs our comfort within the crew grew, so did our honesty toward the subject. One day, a group of young boys walked up to our production assistant and asked how much we\u2019d charge: They\u2019d presumed that a man<\/a> would negotiate<\/a> on our behalf. This was especially ironic, considering the film is about fighting the men within the sex-trade system and creating a revolution of sorts.\n\nDuring the course of shoot I met several women from the area. These were real women<\/a> coping with life in extremely difficult conditions \u2013 these were also the people who were the kindest to us. The mother of two in the slum who always offered us hot tea no matter what time of the night we wrapped up. The young Tamil girl from the chawl who dreamed of becoming a heroine someday and insisted on taking acting tips from me. The schoolgirl who wanted to become a cop and stop crime in her area. There was nothing different between them and Sharanya, or Tikli, or Laxmi, I thought. Everyone <\/a>was just trying to survive, one day at a time.\n\nIn the course of living Sharanya\u2019s life day in and out, her fight became my own. It wasn\u2019t easy. I\u2019d see my team members brutalised and being threatened at every go in the film, and I started to become terribly aware of my surroundings in real life too. I bought a pepper spray that still sits in one of my bag pockets. On one of the days, on my way to the shoot, a cabbie took a shorter route to reach the destination sooner, and I almost attacked him with the spray, until I realised he wasn\u2019t up to anything shady. And although we were performing, for me it was cathartic to pick up a revolver and point it at a man who\u2019d violated my body.\n\nOn my drive back home on the last day of the shoot, I noticed someone on Juhu beach. A woman in a blue-sequinned top and maroon lipstick. She was waiting for the night to begin. I waved at her from within my car. She waved back with a smile. \u201cSharanya is real,\u201d I thought. She always was.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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